10 things to paste at your favourite place

FRIENDS,HERE IS 10 SELF-ASSORTED DOSES OF POSITIVITY FOR YOU ALL .100% PURE & HANDMADE . NO SIDE EFFECTS, GUARANTEED :) 

for a better you .just write it out on a blank page & paste that somewhere at your favourite place.this will keep you reminding what you lack of & what is missing thing in your complete happiness.this is sure to produce some really magnificant results.

1.relationships

to be happy what you think is the most important? its your relationships buddy .

you know why i call you buddy ? buddy means friend & when i am calling you buddy i feel an intimacy with you & so i can write from the bottom of my heart . i consider every user a my friend because he/she tried to read me,to spend some minutes of their life to think me .

forever, develop trust relationships with people. ya its risky to trust everybody ,but the more risky is that you trust nobody . 

be with people & they will be with you .give time to your work and skills but share your happy moments with other peoples . thee will be times in your life when you will feel bad,when you are in misery , when you need some support & if you have supported anybody in your life. they will surely stand by you in your bads . like a boomerang whatever you throw to other people it will return to you at the end of the day.

2.money

whatever is said about money and people who have it , the fact is that its an essential thing for anybody .its a confidence factor.

i listened a dialogue in a very famous indian movie . the scene is like - there is hero of the movie who has recently earned some money after a big economic breakdown & yet he starts to again invest it and spending it madly , his boss asks him why does he do it even though he has recently covered up from a serious economic breakdown. & guess what he answered ? his answer was  " boss we are the middleclass people , we automatically get confident when we have money".its a common instinct that having money adds you a lot of confidence.

most of us are middle class or even lower , so we understand need of money.whatever you say to people outside about need of other things more than money , but inside you would surely have felt that money is necessity . when you have money ,there is no restriction for you at almost any place.sometimes poor relationships can also be complemented by money . so before achieving other goals of life you will need money achievement . try to understand this thing as earlier as you can and start right now finding ideas to earn money.

3.personality

the confidence inside is necessary to show people your capability & where it comes from?obviously personality . 

no no..personality never means being cool,doing things stylish way , or being a macho man or a rude girl . personality is just supposed to supplement your thoughts & field of work . that's why business people are always seen  in suits ,thats why doctors are always in light color dresses. its not only the way you represent your dressing . personality is about how you behave with others , how you walk,how you talk,the way you smile, the way you speak ,the way you show-off,your attitude . overall , a combo of your personal features and demerits . 

so next time whenever you step out try to look what you are , not like what you should be, or what others expect.accept challenges , overcome peoples expectations,express your self,do your heart . dynamic personality often adopts good techniques and good manners . being bad may not be preferable for other peoples but being good is praised anywhere .

4.nature

yep its a part of personality, but its so much important that it was worth another mention.

 there are lots of people who are successful in life but inside they are irritated with all others . they always complain about other peoples. you know why? just because they aren't good enough to be there. try to build your nature dynamically. behave to people the way they like . it doesn't mean that from now on you have to be like their servants but you have to be intimate to everybody. 

not being proud ,but in my life i have so much intimate relations with people that even if we meet only twice a year ,they share me their secrets which their parents would even don't know. 

how its possible? because they know that i will never  break their trust , i talk with them nicely , with my eye to their eye . they see a nice person in me and thats why they believe me and want me to be with. & this kind of nature profits you a lot. you will be asked for opportunities because when you think for others' good they will think of yours. thats the secret of being happy and getting others happy.

5.happiness

oh...happiness, how can i forget. 

its said that "whatever your world is, its nothing but the reflection of what you are inside" . so true. you can self-observe it. the people who are self-blunt will find everybody blunt. the people who are poor will have poor friends,people who are honest will find honesty as the best policy. so basically what i'm talking about is seeing the world happy needs yourself to be happy.

there is a friend of mine who is always happy.he loved a girl who was her relative . and in our region the marriage between relatives  is not allowed , so his hair started falling in grief. once he thought of this and decided never to be sad. from there on his hairs stopped falling magically. now he knew the power of happiness . so he began to live happily always . he always remains funny , talks about nice things ,he shares jokes to people and inspires others to be happy & from that magic touch i have seen many of my friends converting to a totally different attractive personalities.and girls are now dieing to be her girlfriend but he is now boyfriend of the girl he loved.

another friend named harsh. when he got admission in college i was his first room mate in our hostel. he had never brought good results almost never more than 60% and when he saw me doing fun everytime,never reading seriously and yet bringing distinction in finals of college , he asked me the reason. i just simpally told that never be sad . always stay happy whatever situation is there. then he gradually started to following it. he now remained happy, he enjoyed bunking the lectures and doing adventures.overall , he started living fully & guess what ? in the very first semester of college he brought highest marks in college & now he was the most rocking person of his class.nobody in his family trusted his result at the first glance. that was the magic of happiness. so when are you starting to live happily?

6.knowledge

many times you would have heard that "knowledge is wealth " but have you ever observed it ? 

if you don't have observed then start observing my friend . observation is the technique to learn anywhere ,any time,any place. many time you might have faced that due to some little piece of knowledge you become able to impress a huge group of people while others can't do it. 

having knowledge produces a chain reaction & gets you to progress. see how, when you have knowledge and you apply it somewhere people will see it. when people see it they will know your ability in that thing & if you are much well than others in this. whenever they need it ,you will come to their mind & they will ask you to help them do that & if you are capable to do it you may also do that to earn something . 

now knowledge alone is not enough there are two to three ingredients that you need to add it to make it more spicy & sellable & those are 1.publicity,2.apply it & 3.upgrade it , just like any product life cycle you first have to get it then you have to apply it,then market it & to maintain your place you have to keep upgrading.

so essentially , what i want to say is keep on observing, keep on asking & keep on getting challenges to get some extra dose of knowledge minerals .it will keep your life healthier.

7.spiritual insight

now this is somewhat controvesial ,because not everybody believe in god. 

but who said that spirituality is all related to god & supernaturals..Steve Jobs,you would have probably heard of ,was  one of the establisher of apple computers -that recently made a record of getting 2million sales orders of the very famous iphone5, was used to do his tasks spiritually . sometimes he thought of computers to be spiritual devices . he dreamed of open lones and classical music moving that grass leaves with wind & just fell like a statue on floor.also in the ending days of his life he visited india & other places in search of piece of mind .

spirituality means having a soulful nature as per my view. whatever you do , do it spiritually. have a spirit in doing it. have so much concentration & interest that you feel like meditating. a focused mind is more powerful then a chaotic cosmos . try to find your aim of life spiritually . try to find what give you happiness & peace of mind . 

so keep on doing what makes you focused and keep you in a positive state , making you happier , just like me writing a blog for you my friends ! :)

8.the do factor

no matter how much powerful your mind & thought are, they are of no use until you apply it .there would surely be a lot of people around you who are excellently skilled & much more talented than other peoples you know . but they are never highlighted, they never come in front pages . why you think it happens?

just because they have never applied it . they have never done anything which was needed to make them famous or to make them precious ones . till i hadn't started blogging my thoughts & writing skills were also useless . people loved my writings but they were of no meaning till i written it here where i wanted it to be. i had to learn blogging for it. it took so much time & hardwork to make it famous but at the end of the day i got what i needed & deserved just because i did it. 

lenovo ,the dominating computers company in china has a tagline " for those who do" . see they have learnt a very important lesson of success & due to that they are now almost set to rock second highest market country india too. doers never set calmly . they don't just think but keep on experiencing & thats why they are the most knowledgible & effective everywhere . 

if you start doing right now, you may fail today ,but surely the point will come when you will get what you deserved & that is success. by doing you will day by day become more eligible for success because you will get knoowledge of atleast what you shouldn't do by even failing  , & there will be more possiblity of success for you then newer ones. thats why MNCs asks for peoples with experience of many years. they have did it & they know what to do & what not to do. 

having experience is better han having knowledge. thats why we have number of millionaires in gujarat,india who have never studied even upto 10th standard. they had started experiencing their fields from their young days of life.

 9.commitment

all the things above are just like a treasure which is locked by a golden key & that key is commitment. if you have a commitment for success there is nobody in the world who can stop you getting it. if you are not successful it just because you are not strongly committed to your goals , you have never had a strong dedication for that . & if you had dedication then probably you have never done anything solid for getting that. there may be hundreds of reasons for why you should be successful. but this one is enough to put a cross on you . whenever you take a task in your hand ,stand with commitment that you will put all your senses in it. you will do everything to fulfill it & you will never let any other thing be obstacle in this path.

each & every successful person in world was & is committed to their task . i have met a lot of successful people in life who are successful & those who are failures . one of the major difference between them is commitment . committed people never look after results they just add their soul & heart with all their senses & creates masterpieces . so if you want  to get something just be committed to it & that's all. you are now all set to rise a fire .

10.health

along with mental strength don't you think that the physical health is also necessary ? 

its for sure that the more healthier you are the more positive you are about your abilities . now question is , what it takes to be healthier? 

its simple. its just some level of awareness . i dont advice you to eat fruits all the time or keep on walking all day . but you can adjust your working spaces & food habbits such a way that you get some vital nutritions daily & a bit of exercise so that you never need to do it all day when you are completely covered with illness. 

just add a one fresh fruit to your list , keep list changing & walk 15 minutes a day . bath carefully, keep things clean & stay tension free. thats all you have to do. except exercises you don't have to spend any extra time to build up health . just make it your routine & you will surely be healthier.